Hey Kicky....

[moevillini]

I was merely saying that I would prefer he have a job than that my issue was marginally less awful. And trust me, the entire thing isn't based on some linguistic misunderstanding or series of misunderstandings.



Thanks. I regarded jazzfanz as a semi-zone of privacy for me in the relationship. I kind of assumed I got the website in the breakup. Some of the financial details (the $30k bonus in particular) I didn't share with her because when it looked like this whole thing was going to work out I didn't want to make her feel bad about my moving for financial reasons. In essence I kept some details back to prevent her from feeling too guilty. In essence, she found out about that for the first time on this website, that's why I'm saying I have to be a little more discrete on here.

And I am hoping there is some path where we can normalize things. It would be ridiculous for me to claim I loved her for all these years and then to behave as if I didn't want her around at all. In that sense, I guess I do care about her feelings still even after she did what she did.

I too hope Fesenko finds a job in the league, both for his sake and yours. It'd be a fun distraction for you, and it's amusing for the rest of us to read about your adventures cheering for the jackpotting Russian.


As to your personal situation, you seem to have a good attitude. It might be natural that one's first inclination would be to demonize the other person, but as you mentioned, you devoted several years of your life to the relationship so you can't deny it. Whether or not you have any thoughts of possibly working things out with her in the long run, you've learned some valuable lessons that can serve you well in any future romantic relationships.

I hope both you and your former girlfriend find your own separate peace with the current situation. Best wishes to you Kicky for brighter days as the new year progresses.

 

[Scat]

I too hope Fesenko finds a job in the league, both for his sake and yours. It'd be a fun distraction for you, and it's amusing for the rest of us to read about your adventures cheering for the jackpotting Russian.

I think that as a Ukranian he may take offense to this.

 

[moevillini]

I think that as a Ukranian he may take offense to this.

oops!!

my 2012 is not off to a good start...
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[franklin]

I'm The Madame now?

No, sorry, that was my saying things I don't mean to flaring up again. Kicky said she's reading so we might as well talk to her too.

I think you were jumping to conclusions with Moe. She's the most level headed person on this site and deserves the benefit of the doubt. I'd guess her comments had a personal effect to them.

 

[TroutBum]

This thread makes me LOL and /cry at the same time. Some of us are so pathetic.

 

[franklin]

I really liked her, but at the end of the day, she hurt one of my boys. She is public enemy #1 until Tink tells me otherwise.

Reminds me of Karl Malone switching teams. I didn't care how much I loved him or how much he did for MY team, once he jumped ship, the relationship was over.

How broish b4 hoish of you. Maybe you two can start a little gang. Call Jamie Kennedy.

 

[kwb]

So let me get this straight. Kicky, your ex got on here and read this thread? I wish I could have heard the phone call that went like this, "I saw what you put on Jazzfanz you piece of ****!"