This is a pet peeve and a reverse pet peeve all in one.
Background info - I spent the weekend at the Shakespeare Festival in Cedar City. Due to my health issues, it isn't easy for me to get around much. Disabled parking makes my life a lot easier, as does walking with a cane due to my dizziness levels, and I handled the weekend better than I expected.
Pet peeve - I felt very conspicuous and embarrassed as many people would ask me if I needed help anytime I stopped to catch my breath or steady myself.
Reverse pet peeve - There are a lot of good people in the world who cared about whether I was okay and were willing to help.
On the whole, the reverse pet peeve wins.