I was at the Trax trolley station outside the Vivint Dumb Home Arena, and these three stereotypical black kids, in the blaxploitation movie sense, who were about 13 asked an older black dude if they could get a dollar.
Kid 1: "Hey, can I get a dollar".
Pepper haired older black dude: What did you say boy?
Kid: Can I get a dollar.
Older black dude: Listen son, be polite. The way you ask for a dollar is to say "Sir, may I please have a dollar". (While setting a dominating presence of leaning over the boy).
The did repeated that phrase exactly and the older black dude gave him a dollar. Then, another one of the three does the same thing and he got a dollar too. Then, the third kid asks the same thing and the guy says sorry, I don't have no more money and walks off.
There were two lessons learned there at the same time.
What reminded me of this is I was on the same Trax trolley the other day and this black kid says "Sir, can I please have a slice of pizza?" I gave him half the box and I still wonder if that old man's simple advice a few months back somehow trickled down. I wouldn't even respond to "yo dude, can I get a slice of that pizza". But this kid, who was obviously in need and was doing the grocery shopping and riding public transit, obviously needed the help. I appreciated the respectful request from both him and pepper haired old black dude.
Kid 1: "Hey, can I get a dollar".
Pepper haired older black dude: What did you say boy?
Kid: Can I get a dollar.
Older black dude: Listen son, be polite. The way you ask for a dollar is to say "Sir, may I please have a dollar". (While setting a dominating presence of leaning over the boy).
The did repeated that phrase exactly and the older black dude gave him a dollar. Then, another one of the three does the same thing and he got a dollar too. Then, the third kid asks the same thing and the guy says sorry, I don't have no more money and walks off.
There were two lessons learned there at the same time.
What reminded me of this is I was on the same Trax trolley the other day and this black kid says "Sir, can I please have a slice of pizza?" I gave him half the box and I still wonder if that old man's simple advice a few months back somehow trickled down. I wouldn't even respond to "yo dude, can I get a slice of that pizza". But this kid, who was obviously in need and was doing the grocery shopping and riding public transit, obviously needed the help. I appreciated the respectful request from both him and pepper haired old black dude.